Master Suite Remodel Project

Average: 4.3 (3 votes)

 

Like most people who have built homes, I look back and wish I would have done certain things differently.  If I think about it, probably those "differences" are equally divided between things that my wife and I just were not in a position to do with a baby on the way and things that we have just realized were not ideally suited to our lifestyle or taste before. We (mostly me) are also prone to getting tired of things faster than is probably smart. Because of that inherent "anstsyness", our house is in a constant state of flux, ever changing from one motif to another. Rooms are shifted and repurposed. Our hope is that we're moving towards an endpoint where the home is the way we like it, but I'm pretty confident that is a moving target. 
 
If I find them, I'll happily share the prior adventures which included: changing 3 closets into a coat/shoe cubby; converting a basement storage area into a home theater; and, changing a little used office in the basement into a kids play room. Those are for another day. As is typical for me, my attention has wandered and I am on to other things. 
 
The project du jour is the master suite which was comprised of the bedroom, an incredible cheaply done and inefficient bath and a just-barely-usable closet. So, my wife and I decided we were going to pick a project and figured this was one that could help make our daily routine more efficient. The prior set up was a single vanity, a small shower and the a closet that was "L" shaped and difficult to use to any real extent. 
 
At this stage, I feel like I should share that I spent about 10 years of my life working in the construction trades. My father was and is one of the finest builders the State of Michigan was ever blessed with. He has incredible skills and enough OCD to really do an amazing job. I have worked with him on many beautiful homes. Check one out here http://desarch.com/res/heron-bay
 
I learned a lot working with him. The blunt truth is that I didn't get the gene. I enjoy it from time to time, but that talent passed over me and to my brother. So, rather than torment myself or my family, I choose to put my dollars in the economy. In addition, in my trade (business attorney) I get to work with many talented trades people. I think it's a good thing to return the favor.
 
So, for the next few weeks, I'll be posting our exploits for your reading enjoyment and, hopefully, so that you can benefit a bit from my missteps and maybe even get some inspiration for your own future projects. Check back soon.
 

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The Big Guns of Closet Storage

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With barely any space for shoes, coats, and clean clothes in a college closet, dirty laundry is squeezed into any nook and cranny available. The inevitable result? Clean clothes fraternizing with the sweaty, haven’t-been-washed-in-three-weeks enemy. Secure an easy truce in the battle between clean and dirty laundry with these five Bed Bath and Beyond closet organizing essentials.

Changing Your Attitude

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attitudeI discovered something that you may find surprising – There is very little in this world that I can change. I cannot change the weather. I cannot predict the lottery numbers, nor can I tell you what women are thinking. I can’t fly...leap tall buildings...or see through clothes (all childhood dreams). I cannot change whether my boss is a continuous pain, or whether the people who work for me are either (btw – they’re not). I cannot change Wall Street; the Government; taxes; same-sex marriages; cancer; immigration laws; or Lance Armstrong’s drug tests. The one thing I have total control over and can change is my attitude....

Treating Back Pain at Home

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back massageFor a long time now I have suffered from occasional lower back pain. Lifting heavy loads; twisting; and basic over exertion have all taken their toll on my back. Sometimes it’s even comical (though still painful). Like the time I was reaching for the toilet paper and bam, out goes the old man’s back. Seriously, what sadistic person mounts the roll behind you on the wall at shoulder height? If your spouse comes to help you in this position, you really know their love will last a lifetime. So here is how I fix my own back pains at home…

How To Guide on Supporting a Working Mom

Average: 5 (4 votes)

More moms are headed to the workplace these days and more fathers are staying home to raise the children. But even in this new era of parenting, an old motto rings as true today as it ever did.

“A happy wife is a happy life.”

While more moms are saying goodbye to husband and child in the mornings and headed to the office, the tug to stay at home is as real and strong as it’s ever been. Add in a healthy heaping of guilt for being the Mom who isn’t staying at home, and you have a recipe for disaster.

What’s a daddy to do?

Making time for your Kids

Average: 4.5 (4 votes)

Developing a strategy for becoming a better dad can sound like a big joke. To use the term “busy dad” in the current world is really an understatement. A lot of us dads have a difficult time trying to balance our professional or personal demands against spending valuable time with the wife and kids too. Just because your schedule is tight should not mean that you are destined to fail as a parent. 

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